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This also includes keeping tabs on your ex from afar, says Leckie. You’ll only go in circles this way and hold yourself back,” she advises. When you don’t block your phone, you tend to anxiously wait for them to reach out. “Unfriend on social media and block on your phone.

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If you want that to change, it’s time to go full no-contact, says Leckie. If your ex is still present in your life, whether that’s IRL or just on social media, that contact can keep your desire for reconciliation alive for far too long. Go Full No-Contact, Including Social Media. Being honest with yourself is crucial,” she says. “Stop focusing on the good memories and instead focus on what was not working in the relationship. This is why Leckie says embracing the reality of the relationship and all its flaws is the first step to letting go of false hope.

It’s tempting to look back on past relationships with rose-colored glasses. Here’s how the experts say you can say goodbye to the false hope of a reconciliation for good. It's also time to let go when 'your ex has someone new, when they treat you badly despite not being in a relationship, and when they are still hot and cold with you, keeping you hanging on themselves,' adds Chong.īut recognizing it’s time to let go and actually being able to do it are two very different things. When they don’t reach out to try to fix the relationship,' says Leckie. You'll know the time is right to start letting go of those feelings when 'a good chunk of time has passed and you haven’t been in contact with one another. You’re the one who’s in control of moving on,' Trina Leckie, breakup coach and host of the Breakup BOOST podcast, tells Elite Daily. The longer you hang on, the longer you stay hurt. The sooner you accept that the breakup was for the best, the sooner you’ll heal and get to the other side. If you want to fully get over that relationship and open your heart up to someone new, however, letting that hope go may be your best course of action. “It happens because no one is really quite prepared for the loss that comes with suddenly losing an intimate partner.' 'Unless the ending of the relationship was 100% mutual and amicable, one or both of you will hang onto some hope that you'll get back together,” she says.

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This situation is very common, as Cherlyn Chong, a dating and breakup recovery coach for professional women, tells Elite Daily. While there's nothing wrong with that, over time, that wish can hold you back from healing and moving on.

So, it makes sense that when you're going through heartbreak, there might be a little voice inside keeping the hope you'll get back with your ex alive. The belief that things will work out and there’ll be happiness on the other side helps us get through the difficult things in life.

Not yet my husband but hopey well be soon